Fear Of Failures
Fear of Failures is also known as Atychiphobia. We are afraid to fail because of the hurt failure might have on us. We look at how we would suffer if we do not succeed. That’s our egos talking. We find ourselves giving up on our dreams because we are too afraid of leaving our comfort zone. The fear of failures is one of the strongest reasons holding back a lot of people from acting on their dreams.
We don’t trust that we’re being taken care of on a higher level, so we feel we must control everything from the physical level. Obviously, we’re going to feel fear because we can’t control everything in our lives. – Louise Hay
Remember this: If you never try because of Fear Of Failures then you will never succeed! Do you agree with me?
Fear of Failures is only natural when you are trying to build a successful online business. Successful persons are people who refuse to get knocked down and keep on going.
Do you realize how close you are to turning your dreams into your reality?
If you could see how close you are to success, you’d be kicking yourself that you haven’t just reached out to grab it yet.
The truth is, no matter how much you feel like a failure, success is literally waiting to flood your life. The only thing you have to do, is tear down the “Success Floodgates” holding it back.
Fear Failure Symptoms
-Do you worry about what other people think about you?
-Do you worry about not be able to pursue your dreams?
-Do you worry that people will lose interest in your business if you start one?
-Do you worry if you will be able to get a business up and running successfully.
-Do you worry to disappoint people?
-Do you tend to put yourself down before even starting like telling people that you don’t expect to succeed in order to lower their expectations of you?
-Once you fail trying to do something, you can’t imagine what you could have done differently to succeed.
-You often find excuses that prevents you from starting on a project.
Fear Failure Quotes:
Dealing With Fear Of Failure
You need to learn to trust Yourself. OK, but how can I do that?
Replace your fear with the desire for your passion, your desire to live your dreams. Picture yourself in the present running a successful business. Trust yourself, The Power within You! You need to trust that Power and believe that you are being taken care of, even though you are not physically in control of everything that’s happening in your life or around you.
Quit comparing yourself to others
Focus on your desires, and trust that if you bear in mind your hunger for success, then it will happen exactly as it’s supposed to.
“Don’t fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.” ~Unknown
Here’s 3 “Success Floodgates” holding back your dreams:
1. Making Excuses
If we choose someone successful to look at as an example, like Steve Jobs, we’ll see that he never made excuses. When things went wrong, he didn’t blame other people. He didn’t refuse to accept responsibility for his own mistakes. He didn’t try to justify his poor choices.
He didn’t make excuses because he understood that failure is going to happen. It’s not the end of the road – it’s one step on the road to success.
In fact, the next Success Floodgate you have to tear down is…
2. Fear Of Failures
Like I already said, failure happens. But it’s not a dead end – it’s a step forward.
Too many people run into a tiny bit of failure, and they think they’re done forever. They give up immediately, never realizing how close they were to achieve their goals.
The problem is, they take failure personally. They think it means something’s wrong with them. But the truth is, failure is part of the journey to success.
That’s why it’s so important that you stop…
3. Beating Yourself Up
Think about it. Can you imagine Steve Jobs yelling at himself, saying that he’s dumb, or lazy, or any of the other million insults people tell themselves? Of course not!
Successful people don’t beat themselves up. They understand that taking your anger out on yourself only pushes your goals farther away. They still get upset, but they channel those emotions into constructive energy. They use that energy as jet fuel to reach their goals.
The truth about success is that you’re closer than you think. Sometimes all it takes is tearing down the floodgates, so you can let your dreams pour in.
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Conquer Fear Of Failure
Here are Three Powerful Questions to ask yourself:
1) What did I learn from this situation?
2) How can I grow as a person from this experience? Negative Experiences help you grow.
3) What are three positive things about this situation? This one I use it all the time. Out of a bad situation you need to find 3 positive things. Trust me, there is always positive out of a bad situation!
There is only one thing that makes a DREAM Impossible to achieve: The Fear Of Failure – Paulo Coelho